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Sometimes i cannot help to feel that i love super-femmes, and they like butches….

tumblr_mds2d0KuyI1r7xf6to3_500Femmes
In general, femmes are seen to be almost identical to heterosexual women, apart from their sexual orientation, although some respondents suggest that femmes are more daring, edgy, or “garang” (Malay for “fierce”) than straight women. While it is unusual for butches to display non-masculine behaviours and traits, femmes who carry out masculine behaviours are still considered femmes. They may range from the extremely feminine lesbian (variously described as the super-femme or ultra-femme) who Rita suggested would have “lipstick, makeup all the time, dressing very feminine, the way she walks, the way she behaves”, to the “tomboyish” femme who may prefer wearing jeans and a t-shirt, but they are not divided according to their “level” of femininity. There are no specific labels to separate less or more
feminine femmes. Charissa attempted to explain what makes her girlfriend a femme: “It’s like she doesn’t have flowers all over her shirt, or she doesn’t like, always wear tight jeans all the time. She likes to wear t-shirts and shorts and very loose-fitting clothes. But it’s all the, it’s in the small things, like the type of slippers she chooses, or like, how she wears her hair, and how she takes effort in picking out the appropriate bra for the appropriate dress, that sort of thing.”However, femmes The word “active” may also be used to describe the romantically or sexually aggressive half of a couple. could be categorized by who they were attracted to. Natasha, Katherine and Frances, who subscribed to the labels, were the only respondents who did this. Femmes who are attracted to other femmes were
described as “pure lesbians” (PLs), while femmes attracted to butches were either simply “femmes” or occasionally “passives”.
There is however, a clear differentiation between a femme and a “straight girl”. The latter refers to (feminine) women who are currently in a relationship with a (usually masculine) lesbian. It is not necessarily a fling, as there is the possibility of the relationship continuing for a long period of time, but these “straight girls” do not consider themselves lesbians. Katherine noted that most of her past girlfriends have been “straight girls”: “they’re straight girls, I convert them for a while, and then after that they go back in [to straight relationships]… and they never have another girly – feminine sexual encounter ever again… And if someone asks them, so are you straight? They usually go like, yeah. I’m just the exception… they don’t identify themselves with any of these categories, they don’t identify themselves as lesbians at all.”

{from : http://scholarbank.nus.edu.sg/bitstream/handle/10635/23775/Pamela%20Devan%20Masters%20Thesis.pdf?sequence=1}

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So Kewt

🙂

Things to do 2013

Must Do’s
  • Continue keeping an accurate account of expenditures.✔
  • Rework budget based on last yr expenditures and keep to it.✔
  • Run 2.4km weekly.✔
  • Pass IPPT.✔
  • complete raid5 backup to crashplan.✘

Good to have’s

  • Learn to use Puppet, open source configuration management tool ✘
  • Write another a full fledged GUI program using Perl or Python on the raspberry-pi 😦 ✘
  • do a complete LVM backup of application disk. ✘

Completed

  • a New Job 🙂

Things to do DEC

Must Do’s
  • Continue keeping an accurate account of expenditures.✔
  • Rework budget based on last yr expenditures and keep to it.✔
  • Run 2.4km weekly.✔
  • A new Job :(   keeping up, but seriously unmotivated to work….✘

Good to have’s

  • Learn to use Puppet, open source configuration management tool ✘
  • Write another a full fledged GUI program using Perl or Python on the raspberry-pi 😦 ✘

Aune T1

i’ve been wanting to get a proper desktop amplifier for a while now. Previously my Emmeline “The Hornet” has served me well, but it is more suitable for use as a portable amp :), i really need an amp that can drive my HD650 fully.

The major issue for my previous desktop amp is that it uses an interconnect between the sound source (which is the headphone jack of my pc) and the amplifier, this isnt elegant…

i have been wanting to get a DAC and a tube desktop amp for a damn long time, finally it is now integrated 🙂 and i love the warmth and amber glow from the valve :), extreme value for money.

October

Must Do’s
  • Continue keeping an accurate account of expenditures.✔ 
  • Rework budget based on last yr expenditures and keep to it.✔
  • Run 2.4km weekly.✔
  • A new Job 😦  keeping up, but seriously unmotivated to work….✘

Good to have’s

  • Veritas Clustering or RHEV course✔
  • Learn to use Puppet, open source configuration management tool ✘
  • Write another a full fledged GUI program using Perl / TK Python on the raspberry-pi 😦 ✘
  • Get a driving license. ✘

job hunter X

tough tough tough, i have been attending a few interviews. the first was a contract position with GIC, that didn’t turn out too well, and one with STmicroelectronics, that was pretty sucky.
went for another with amazon, was a dc tech position, i probably wasn’t really qualified as dc technician, i dun know if i am under or over qualified.
the next one was with savvis, duh… its another shift job, cant believe my unluckiness. wasn’t really interested with them, but anyway i wasn’t offered too. i guess it works both ways.

the upcoming one is with temasek polytechnic. the job scope sounds meaningful, but few issues are whether my salary is within their budget and is my unisim degree recognized……it seems in all likelihood i will be dropped.
hope the second interview occurs….

it seems jobs are kinda rare now, 1 week ago, my company opened up a position for an system administrator. plenty of IT “talents” applied after they were sacked from banks like deutsch and citi , the pay was around sgd 6000 to 6500.
they most likely got in thru the bank’s employee referral system with help from people of the same race and creed that was rampant during the mini boom of 2010, too bad for them. the show is over for the investment bank IT ops industry.
i dun know how long will it take the market to absorb those sacked, this frickin affects me, because they are looking for the same sysadmin type of jobs like me.

disgruntled IT professional


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